Boyfriend or SNL?

Here's a great quote by Jeremy from LoveSystems...

"To take her home from the bar, she doesn't need to know your life story.
Otherwise, she'll see you as a potential boyfriend, not a SNL."

Work on your sexual escalation techniques and seduce her now - not later!

Confidence vs Creepy

Once she notices you looking, you’re either going to be “confident” or “creepy,” so be confident and approach.

You've probably heard of the "3 second rule" - so do something - it's better than nothing!

Check out Magic Bullets by Love Systems for approach ideas, and of course, browse our sections on approach ideas and pickup lines for a few tips too!

Compliments - yes they do work!

Always pay attention to your girl's appearance. She's used to hearing guys tell her she's hot, or sexy -- but  when a guy notices (& compliments her) on a new outfit or hairdo, she takes notice!

A common thing I like to do  with strippers is exactly this --  since most guys are eyeing the girl when she's practically naked, I take note when the girls are putting on "clothes" and heading outside for a break -- "Hey, you look incredibly cute in that dress", or, "you have a great sense of style tonight".. etc.    

 One of my recent stripper 'seductions' (see stripclubadventures.com) was using this exact technique.  I practically ignored this girl when she was on stage, but when she later walked past me in a cute little sun dress to go outside for a smoke, I tossed out the "wow, you look incredibly cute in that dress" line.  She stopped dead in her tracks, gave me a slightly confused look and sat down with me.  A few minutes later and we had plans for the next day.  Complimenting her on her dress immediately snapped her out of 'stripper mode' and stirred her interest.  

Give it a try next time you're out -- compliment on something she has taken the time to do - her hair, clothes, etc.    She's tired of hearing "hey you're hot" and "hey beautiful".. those are compliments that don't work.


Want more great ideas for approaching and turning her on?
Check out the ebook "Bang!" by Roosh (click here).

Shock value... "the most romantic thing"

If you've been reading some of my posts, you'll realize we want to "shock & awe" the girl... to wake her out of the zombie-like trance most people are stuck in.  Doing so makes you a memorable guy, and might just pique her interest in you.

Here is something I came across quite some time ago, and I regularly toss this in to arouse random women from their typical boring day...    you can be chatting for a couple of minutes, or use this on a "hired gun", or female employee at a store you're at.

Basically, after she says something normal, you simply respond with "Wow, that is the most romantic thing a woman has ever said to me! "

More than likely you'll get a smile, perhaps a giggle and you can take it from there!

For more great ideas, check out the free ebook files at seductionebooks.com 

A satisfying sex life?

Only 25% of women are completely satisfied with their sex life....

Boost your sexual stamina with these tips (click here for free video) ... check out awesomesextips.com ... or check out the free sexual stamina ebooks here

Conversation Subtext

Subtext is one of the most powerful foundations of playfulness, teasing, and flirting.

(learn more about teasing & flirting in Magic Bullets by Love Systems... click here)

If you're going to flirt....

Last night I ran a small workshop for shy guys - it's designed to get guys comfortable with the tension of talking to "hot women"... we start out with some theory and take it to a strip club for "immersion therapy" so I can get a good handle on specific aspects of "things needing work"..  (learn more about the workshops here - or try a LoveSystems boot camp in your area).

Anyway, we bounced after a couple of hours to a regular night club to work on approaching "regular" women...

Now, I know I've said this before, but it needs said again:

If you're going to flirt, be ready to make the approach.
You're telling the girl you're interested and if you get smiles and acknowledgements back - she is interested in you.  Approach and start a conversation!  

It was obvious with a couple of my clients that a couple of attractive ladies were getting "frustrated" by the flirting, but lack of approaching.  Guys, you know who you are!

If you're stuck with approach anxiety too, check this out for some great tips.

Escalate sooner than later.....

The longer you're talking to her with out (sexually) escalating, the more awkward it will be later (if not impossible).

While on this topic, the same thing applies even in an approach... if you're checking each other out, but you don't make a move, you might as well forget it later on - it just gets too awkward - for the both of you.

Learn more tips like this - check out Bang! More Lays in 60 Days from RooshV

Set some standards...

Some guys think by going for girls less attractive it's easier. That's not the case. There's no correlation.

For more great game changing tips, check out "Bang! More Lays in 60 Days, by RooshV"

Be non-reactive for attraction.

Being non-reactive is very attractive to women.
Just enjoy yourself and don’t seek specific responses from her.

(As your game improves, you'll notice her trying harder to "impress you"... just continue being non-reactive -- but interested - for amazing results).

Check out the ebook "Bang - 60 Days to More Lays", for other great advice!

When are you seducing her?

The seduction phase in #dating is when the woman feels aroused by a man’s touch without awkwardness or embarrassment.

"Magic Bullets", from LoveSystems will improve your game in a drastic way, so you can avoid those awkward or even those times girls sense "creepiness". 

Qualify her...

Qualification is the inverse of attraction.
Use qualification as an opportunity to convey more value and establish a genuine connection.  
   - Love Systems

Learn more in the book "Magic Bullets" (click here)

Something is better than nothing,

Do something.  Even if you mess up, it is better than nothing.

Subway game

Flirting when stuck on the subway is lots of fun...  just not when you're the only one on board.

Text Message Game

Sometimes the best text (message) is no text at all.
(It leaves her wondering what you're thinking... and it can drive her wild).

Conversation Tips... it's all about her.

 It’s no secret that every woman loves to talk about her favorite subject – herself.

But why not learn a bit more about successful conversation with a woman.  Click here for "How to Talk to Women" .

Make a move already

If there is a woman you see repeatedly, if you don't make a move by the third time, she's written you off.

Besides, it just gets too awkward if you've seen her numerous times and not said a thing.  Make a move when you first see her, or at the first available opportunity.

Practice, Practice, Practice!

Do we need to say more?

The more you practice, the better you get.   And be sure to practice everywhere, all the time - not just with the "hot" women.

Don't Try to Impress Her

Just like the title says... "Don't Try To Impress Her".

Once you start doing this, you've lost the game.  She knows you're "trying" and this is not an attractive quality to have.  Relax, and just be casual - it doesn't matter if this interaction with her goes any where or not -- and once you have that mindset, you'll find that it does get you somewhere!

Disagreeing with her

When a woman disagrees with you, don't cave in and agree (or change the subject), use it as a great oppportunity to flirt!  For more flirting tips, check out the free downloads section of SeductionEbooks.com