having a wingman or going solo?

   By being alone, not drunk, relaxed, and approachable, I get bumped up on her sex wish list.   --RooshV

 Those are some great words from Roosh - author of Bang! (get it now if you don't already have the ebook)  - and it's something I've always also been in agreement with.

Honestly, I've never been a good wingman.  I've been out and about with good wingmen, but due to my extensive traveling, it's hard to meet new guys that share your level of skill and understand rules of being a good wingman. So, solo is my way to go -- that being said, don't hesitate to go out and have fun with a group of friends (male and female) - just do your approaches solo.  This way, the woman has likely already noticed you laughing and having a good time with your friends.

Now, having a mentor or coach with you is a different thing, so don't get confused there!

Quick tip on creating a connection...

Making eye contact is a secret to making an initial chemistry connection.

We've got lots of posts on eye contact -- and here is yet another one - why?
Because eye contact is  so damn powerful!  It creates chemistry, which creates attraction.  It can help sexually escalate and so much more.

Get comfortable looking into her eyes and being able to maintain a strong solid eye contact.

Boyfriend or SNL?

Here's a great quote by Jeremy from LoveSystems...

"To take her home from the bar, she doesn't need to know your life story.
Otherwise, she'll see you as a potential boyfriend, not a SNL."

Work on your sexual escalation techniques and seduce her now - not later!

Always work on your inner game...

"If you make small changes to your Inner Game, it improves your outer game by 100%"

 (by LoveSystems)

Things like conversation skills, your personal projects, attitude and more are all important in the world of seduction.   Women have a 'sense' when it comes down to knowing a guy... you want to have your inner game handled - it makes seduction & pickup so much easier!

Compliments - yes they do work!

Always pay attention to your girl's appearance. She's used to hearing guys tell her she's hot, or sexy -- but  when a guy notices (& compliments her) on a new outfit or hairdo, she takes notice!

A common thing I like to do  with strippers is exactly this --  since most guys are eyeing the girl when she's practically naked, I take note when the girls are putting on "clothes" and heading outside for a break -- "Hey, you look incredibly cute in that dress", or, "you have a great sense of style tonight".. etc.    

 One of my recent stripper 'seductions' (see stripclubadventures.com) was using this exact technique.  I practically ignored this girl when she was on stage, but when she later walked past me in a cute little sun dress to go outside for a smoke, I tossed out the "wow, you look incredibly cute in that dress" line.  She stopped dead in her tracks, gave me a slightly confused look and sat down with me.  A few minutes later and we had plans for the next day.  Complimenting her on her dress immediately snapped her out of 'stripper mode' and stirred her interest.  

Give it a try next time you're out -- compliment on something she has taken the time to do - her hair, clothes, etc.    She's tired of hearing "hey you're hot" and "hey beautiful".. those are compliments that don't work.


Want more great ideas for approaching and turning her on?
Check out the ebook "Bang!" by Roosh (click here).

Just have fun & be talkative...

A valuable piece of advice from Jeremy at LoveSystems...  

Open sets just for the sake of having fun and feeling talkative. Not every set is meant to be one where you flirt with her or take her home.

Being a fun, out going guy shows those around you confidence and social awareness.  These are attractive qualities!

Click here for a podcast on improving your conversation skills (by LoveSystems)... or jump on over to seductionebooks.com for some free stuff!